Tip of the Day

They Didn't Call Back Because....

After every first date men and women alike go through this emotional phase I like to call the "PHONE RING PLEAASSEEEE!!!" phase. This is brought on by the fact that you had such a good time on the date that you can't wait to see that person again. BUT.. you don't quite know how that person felt about you. So you pace around the room and stare at your cell phone waiting for the phone call that might never come. So here is the tip, before you part ways at the end of the night ASK for a second date. If you feel that strongly that you had a great time and you want to see where this will go, just go for it. Ask for a second date and plan it with them in your presence. Example: " I had a great time with you tonight, especially your (insert funny moment or great story). Would you like to get together sometime this week? I was wanting to go to the (insert someplace you have a common interest in) and would rather go with you, since we have that in common." This way you won't be sitting around waiting for an answer of whether they had a good time or not. Plus you'll look confident and fascinating at the same time.