- Your "spark" or connection with the person fizzles quickly. You should be able to notice this by the 3rd or 4th date. You shouldn't waste your time trying to rekindle a spark that was that brief.
- Your lifestyles clash.
- They don't get your jokes. One of the best ways to know you have a connection is by how much you can make the other person laugh. If they just don't think you're funny... move on cause they are probably lame anyways.
- They aren't ready to commit, but you are. Trying to change someones mind can been a daunting task. I would recommend trying to pursue someone who is in the same stage of life as you are and is ready for commitment. You don't want to spend the next few years wasting time waiting for them to come around.
- Your spending habits don't match. This one is vital if you intend to share bank accounts. Make sure this one is discussed in detail before you proceed with a relationship. If you are super tight with money and the other person is constantly spending it, its going to be a rocky relationship.
*Blog Idea from Article on Match.com
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